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WHO IS JENNIFER LOVE?

 

Hi! I’m so glad you’re here. My name is Jennifer Love.

Hi! I’m so glad you’re here. My name is Jennifer Love.

When thinking about how best to share about myself so you could really know me, I was drawn to sharing my Be–Do–Have’s.

Be–Do–Have—or more often, Do–Have–Be—is the unconscious formula guiding most people’s lives.

You’ve likely said or heard something like, “I’m going to do X, so I can have Y, and then I’ll finally be Z (happy/at peace/confident).”

But when we live this way, we delay what we most want by placing it on the other side of achievement.

This model undermines our ability to consciously choose how we want to be in any given moment.
And to be clear—this isn’t about bypassing emotion.
It’s a call to practice intention in your way of BEing, because that changes everything.

There’s a deep body of research that supports this:

  • The self-fulfilling prophecy (Merton, 1948) explains how our beliefs shape our behavior and outcomes.

  • Cognitive dissonance theory (Festinger, 1957) shows how we adjust actions to stay consistent with how we see ourselves.

  • Confirmation bias (Nickerson, 1998) reveals how we interpret experiences to reinforce what we already believe.

  • And embodied cognition (Barsalou, 2008; Niedenthal, 2007) demonstrates how even our posture, movement, and physical expression can shape thoughts and emotional states.

So when we practice being grounded, loving, open, or powerful—we reinforce and become those things. It’s not just a mindset—it’s a pattern of embodiment, attention, and action.

WHAT I DO

 
I’ve spent my life exploring consciousness.
I began with philosophy of mind. Then I earned ABD status in cognitive psychology—I completed my dissertation, but before I could defend it, I was recruited into a tenure-track professorship, and my advisor retired. Eventually, I expanded into creative process, trauma-informed coaching, and somatic work.

All of it has shown me the same thing:
People grow by breaking unhealthy patterns, speaking their truth, reconnecting with what matters, and taking action aligned with who they really are.

I teach and coach from that lens—rooted in science, but deeply human. Structured, but never rigid.
Everything I create is designed to help you reconnect with yourself, rebuild with intention, and reclaim your energy for what matters most.

WHAT I DO

I’ve spent my life exploring consciousness. I began with philosophy of mind. Then I earned ABD status in cognitive psychology—I completed my dissertation, but before I could defend it, I was recruited into a tenure-track professorship, and my advisor retired. Eventually, I expanded into creative process, trauma-informed coaching, and somatic work.

All of it has shown me the same thing: People grow by breaking unhealthy patterns, speaking their truth, reconnecting with what matters, and taking action aligned with who they really are.

I teach and coach from that lens—rooted in science, but deeply human. Structured, but never rigid. Everything I create is designed to help you reconnect with yourself, rebuild with intention, and reclaim your energy for what matters most./p>

WHAT I HAVE


This life has given me friendships that span decades—some since I was two years old, others forged at every turning point. I have two sons I adore, a sweet dog by my side, and a home full of movement, study, and connection.

I’ve built businesses, grown a community, and continued to study the things that light me up and fill me up: Swedish, public speaking, logic, physics, creativity, marketing, business development. Learning fills me.

And for those who like credentials:

  • I’m a trained cognitive psychologist.
  • A former tenure-track professor.
  • A multi–seven figure entrepreneur.
  • A certified yoga instructor.
  • A working artist.
  • And a certified Intentional Creativity Coach.

But more than anything, I’m someone who lives this work.
And that became especially clear when I went through my own multi-year divorce.

WHAT I HAVE

This life has given me friendships that span decades—some since I was two years old, others forged at every turning point. I have two sons I adore, a sweet dog by my side, and a home full of movement, study, and connection.

I’ve built businesses, grown a community, and continued to study the things that light me up and fill me up: Swedish, public speaking, logic, physics, creativity, marketing, business development. Learning fills me.

And for those who like credentials: I’m a trained cognitive psychologist. A former tenure-track professor. A multi–seven figure entrepreneur. A certified yoga instructor. A working artist. And a certified Intentional Creativity Coach.

But more than anything, I’m someone who lives this work. And that became especially clear when I went through my own multi-year divorce.

Why I Created the The Toolkit

 

Even with all the tools and insight I had, divorce shook me.

Not just legally or logistically—but energetically, emotionally, and spiritually. I found myself holding everything and barely holding on. And I realized how few grounded, science-backed, soul-aligned resources exist for women like me—high-functioning, capable, emotionally aware, and incredibly tired of doing it all alone.

That’s what led me to create the Toolkit. And, specifically, why I’m interested in supporting women at any stage of divorce first!

If you’re at any stage of divorce—contemplating, in the thick of it, or already through—you’ve probably felt the invisible weight. The not-being-seen. The low-level fatigue you can’t explain. The disconnection from your own truth. The “I don’t know why I’m so tired, but I am.” The question of whether there’s anything ahead of you to actually feel really excited about.

It’s real. I lived it.

And that’s why I’m committed to supporting one million women through this transition—with the support, structure, and tools to not just get through it, but to reclaim what’s yours.

While divorce can dismantle your identity and drain your energy, it doesn’t get the last word.
With the right system, support, and tools—you can release what no longer serves you, call your energy back, and move forward with clarity, power, and joy.

That’s what the Divorce Recovery Toolkit is here to do.
Science-based. Trauma-informed. Psychology-backed.
And infused with the kind of lived wisdom you can’t fake.

If you’re reading this, I know you know. #ifkyk
And you don’t have to do it alone.

Why I Created the The Toolkit

Even with all the tools and insight I had, divorce shook me.

Not just legally or logistically—but energetically, emotionally, and spiritually. I found myself holding everything and barely holding on. And I realized how few grounded, science-backed, soul-aligned resources exist for women like me—high-functioning, capable, emotionally aware, and incredibly tired of doing it all alone.

That’s what led me to create the Toolkit. And, specifically, why I’m interested in supporting women at any stage of divorce first!

If you’re at any stage of divorce—contemplating, in the thick of it, or already through—you’ve probably felt the invisible weight. The not-being-seen. The low-level fatigue you can’t explain. The disconnection from your own truth. The “I don’t know why I’m so tired, but I am.” The question of whether there’s anything ahead of you to actually feel really excited about.

It’s real. I lived it.

And that’s why I’m committed to supporting one million women through this transition—with the support, structure, and tools to not just get through it, but to reclaim what’s yours.

While divorce can dismantle your identity and drain your energy, it doesn’t get the last word. With the right system, support, and tools—you can release what no longer serves you, call your energy back, and move forward with clarity, power, and joy.

That’s what the Divorce Recovery Toolkit is here to do. Science-based. Trauma-informed. Psychology-backed. And infused with the kind of lived wisdom you can’t fake. If you’re reading this, I know you know. #ifkyk And you don’t have to do it alone..

  

 Join Women Rebuilding with the Divorce Recovery Toolkit

"I was amazed by how quickly I felt the closeness of everyone go very deep. Your attention to detail about every little thing is amazing and you have a lot of wisdom inside of you to share. Your passion and enthusiasm for this work shines through."

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Julie E., Maryland, USA


 

"You are fun, energizing, and to the point. You show me where I need to go (in the next step on my journey) very clearly and succinctly. I think the most important thing about working with you is that you see everyone on their own individual path and are there to meet them where they are at!"


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Tania M., Victoria, AU

"I feel stronger and healthier than I have in years. I've begun to pretty consistently eat more holistically, and am listening & trusting myself much more than I can ever remember. I am also not partying as much! A more authentic soul party is in the works. I am following through to myself way more. So in a sense, I am beginning to bloom, or at least have sprouted buds!"

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Elise D., CA, USA

"I love working with you because it is such a great exercise in self actualization and creativity. Powerful and fun — a good combo!!"

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Jessica K., CA, USA



 

 

Contact Jennifer & Team:

To get in touch with Jennifer, contact at [email protected].

Contact Jennifer & Team:

To get in touch with Jennifer, contact at [email protected].